by Lance Loya | Apr 22, 2025
Unconditional acceptance can be a wonderful gift in relationships. One of the most common responses to “What are you looking for in a relationship?” is “someone who will just accept me for who I am.” There’s a lot to be said for acceptance. Having someone acknowledge...
by Lance Loya | Apr 15, 2025
It’s Tax Day in the United States, the final day for Americans to file their federal individual income tax returns without penalty. My accountant is fond of saying, “It’s not the Ides of March that will do you in; it’s forgetting about the Ides of April.” Ironically,...
by Lance Loya | Apr 1, 2025
Happy April Fools’ Day! Those susceptible to practical jokes, pranks, hoaxes, or general trickery must be vigilant today, for this is not a day for the gullible. History has blessed the world with plenty of memorable April Fools’ Day jokes over the centuries. For...
by Lance Loya | Mar 25, 2025
During a recent interview, I was asked to name my all-time favorite song. To which I immediately replied, “Sweet Georgia Brown” by Brother Bones. The interviewer thought my response was unusually quick and asked me to explain. By the time I finished my story, we both...
by Lance Loya | Mar 4, 2025
Recently, I had the pleasure of visiting the Puye Cliff Dwellings, located about 35 miles north of Sante Fe, New Mexico. The experience provided me with a memorable “good teammate” encounter. Home to a thriving Pueblo community from the 900s to late 1400s,...